If you are married, please don’t ask to take a single person to lunch. If you are married, please do not send private messages to someone of the opposite sex that is not your spouse. If you are married, don’t write private letters and ask that they be destroyed after reading (to rid the evidence). If you are married, don’t put yourself or a member of the opposite sex that is not your spouse in a horrible position. If you are married, don’t pursue what is not yours. Keep your eyes and thoughts off what is not yours. Do not violate an innocent person because you can’t control your feelings. If you need to go talk to someone because someone has violated you, I recommend going to someone who will actually listen, act on what you have shared, and not reward the perpetrator.
If you are married, don't ask me to lunch alone. If you are married, don't offer me a ride alone. If you are married, don't send me messages that your spouse can't/shouldn't see. If you are married, BE MARRIED to YOUR spouse.
Things might be difficult, things might be going on in both of your lives that make you believe that an extra marital affair would make things better. BY NO MEANS will it ever do that. Try telling your spouse why you fell in love with them in the first place. You may just fall in love all over again. If you are married, go and tell your spouse how much you appreciate and love them.
If you think "you just don't understand," trust me, I do! I am a not by choice single parent because someone I was married to couldn't keep his eyes/hands/thoughts off of another someone who was married, and couldn't keep her eyes/hands/thoughts off of someone who was married!
